Do Women In Leadership Really Hold Other Women Back

Do Women In Leadership Really Hold Other Women Back I sometimes hear in my talks and in private conversations, from both men and women, that one of the biggest barriers to womens success is other women. I personally have a hard time forming a clear opinion on this topic. I have had over 10 bosses during my professional career, most of which were men, and overall most of which were elend great peoples managers.One of the two women I worked for was someone who initially opened the door for me in tech during my university days. The other woman was someone who almost got me fired when I worked in banking. I remember that after working for her, I subscribed to the often-repeated mantra among banking women, that women bosses are the worst. Until I had one male boss, who reallywasthe worst.As always, I look to scientific evidence to help me be more objective. In The Myth of the Catty Woman,Sheryl Sandberg shares some of the research findings around this topicA study of Standard Poors 1,500 companies over 20 years found that when one woman reached senior management, a second woman would be 51 percent less likely to make it.However, it was not the woman in leadership blocking other women from following suit, but a male CEO.When a woman was made CEO, women had more chances of joining the executive team.Oncorporate boards,even when they have stronger qualifications than men,women are less likely to be mentored unless theres already a woman on the board.And when women join the board, theres abetter chancethat other women will rise to top executive positions.Women arent any meaner to women than men are to one another.We stereotype men as aggressive and women as nurturing,and when women dont fit this bill, we tend to judge them harshly.Astudyamong high-potential leaders involved in mentoring showed that women were mentored by 73 percent of the women but only 30 percent of the men. Additionally,65 percent of high-potential women who received support paid it forward by mento ring others.Yet women can still pay a price when they advocate for other women.A study of 300 executivesfound thatwhen men promoted diversity, they received slightly higher performance ratings.They were the good guys who cared about breaking down the old boys network.When female executives promoted diversity, however, they were perceived as nepotistic, or trying to advantage their own group, and punished with significantly lower performance ratings.Perhaps, the critical point of Sandbergs article is about cultural settings versus biological originsQueen bees arent a reason for inequality but rather a result of inequality. In the past, structural disadvantages forced women to protect their fragile turf. Some of those disadvantages persist.Research showsthat in male-dominated settings, token women are more likely to worry about their standing, so theyre reluctant to advocate for other women. A talented woman presents a threat if theres only one seat for a woman at the table. A margina lly qualified woman poses a different type of threat Hiring you will make me look bad.So, where do we go from here?In the discussion about diversity in leadership, people often tend to stick to the comfort zone of their individual experiences and assumptions about how the world works. I am very hopeful that if we start changing those assumptions and showing a better path forward, we can make work environments better for everyone involved.Its hard to change the traditional mindsets, but I am seeing a new generation of women leaders who are more aware and supportive of both women and men. Its our duty to join their ranks, support them, and help them make it to the top in higher numbers.--Miriam Grobman Consulting works with organizations that want to advance more talented women into leadership roles by breaking cultural barriers and giving them the right skills to be successful. Their approach is data-driven, global and collaborative. Contact them here if youd like to discuss the righ t strategy for your organization. Learn more at www.miriamgrobman.com and sign up for their Fairygodboss is committed to improving the workplace and lives of women. Join us by reviewing your employer